Our approach works best for particular kinds of people. No cookie-cutter solutions here! Instead, our approach may work especially well for you, because it’s designed for you.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS STRUGGLING. YOU SEE EXAMPLES OF COUPLES WHO HAVE BEEN SUCCESSFUL, AND YOU MIGHT BE STARTING TO FEEL LIKE YOU WILL NEVER HAVE THAT IN YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP. IN SOME CASES, YOU MIGHT BE ON THE VERGE OF A BREAKUP OR DIVORCE . YOU REALLY WANT TO STAY TOGETHER, BUT YOU’RE struggling to connect. You’re worried about your substance use or the substance use of a loved one. You may have found yourself relying on substances to get you through the day. You may have started to experience consequences as a result of your substance use. If you are a loved one, you may be concerned about your loved one's drinking or drug use and obsessed with helping them make changes. you feel hopeless at times and raw.
you've lost a loved one or are anticipating a loss. you've lost someone you love already, or are anticipating losing them in the near future. you need support but don't want to "burden" your friends with your pain. life feels different and you need some help figuring out how to exist without this person in your life. you might feel guilty for having fun times again or feel confused about how you should "act". You’ve been in recovery awhile, but it’s not easy or what you expected. Despite having months, or years, (decades?) under your belt, it’s not gotten that much easier, and there still isn’t that “happy, joyous and free” feeling everyone talks about. there are core issues or character defects getting in your way. · You have unresolved trauma. You may be experiencing nightmares and flashbacks. You might be self-medicating to avoid feeling the pain associated with a traumatic event. You might feel like no one understands what you have been through.
you have experienced a relapse. your shame is at an ALL TIME high. you may have returned to drinking or using and you can't figure out how you got here. you are terrified to go back into the rooms or reach out. you want to feel better and get your life back on track but it feels overwhelming. you might be able to put together a couple of days of recovery, but inevitably you start using again.
YOU're experiencing infertility or going through ivf. you've been to countless doctors. you cry every time someone posts another pregnancy announcement. you've decided on ivf and have started all of the medications and shots (ouch!). you feel overwhelmed. you might be coming to terms with grief around using donor eggs or sperm, or giving up on the process all together. you need someone who understands what it is like to go through this.
we know that you are hoping for change. we know that you have tried your hardest to heal on your own. we honor and appreciate your efforts and invite you to utilize us in your healing process. you don't have to live like this anymore.