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Why Autism Has Two Different Relationship Criteria
The basketball analogy that completely changed the way I think about the DSM criteria I’m the type of person who loves to dive deep. If something doesn’t make sense to my brain, I can’t just accept it and move on. I need to understand why. I want to know how the pieces fit together. All of the pieces. That’s especially true when I’m involved in something as important as diagnosis. I take this stuff really seriously because I know how life-changing it can truly be. Over the pa

Jena Plummer
Jul 237 min read


ADHD or Bipolar Disorder? Here's Why You're Confused
Both conditions can look remarkably similar from the outside. The difference is in the details and getting it wrong has real consequences. If you've spent any amount of time on mental health TikTok or falling down a WebMD rabbit hole at 1am, you've probably wondered at some point: Is this ADHD? Is this bipolar disorder? Is it both? Is it neither and I'm just a disaster? I know it feels like you're just being dramatic, but you aren't. The overlap is genuinely real, and the con

Jena Plummer
Jun 116 min read


“Both/And” - Neurodivergence as Culture: Why Autism, ADHD, and AuDHD Belong in Cultural Competence Frameworks
Why should neurodivergence be included in cultural competence? Explore Autism, ADHD, AuDHD, and neurodiversity-affirming counseling.

Allie Hoyt
May 296 min read


When You Learn Your Experience Is Wrong, You Lose Your Anchor
There’s a kind of disconnection that a lot of neurodivergent people carry, and it usually doesn’t come from one big moment. It builds slowly, in small interactions that don’t seem that significant at the time but end up shaping how you relate to yourself. It starts with something simple. You notice the lights feel too bright.Your clothes don’t sit right on your body.There’s a tone in someone’s voice that shifts, and you feel it immediately, even if no one else seems to react.

Jena Plummer
Apr 55 min read


Rethinking Empathy in ADHD and Autism: Understanding the Double Empathy Problem
The breakdown is not a one-sided deficit. It is a mismatch between different communication styles, nervous systems, and social expectations.

Jena Plummer
Feb 274 min read


When You Assume...
One of the worst feelings in the world is having someone assume they know your capacity . It doesn’t really matter which direction that assumption goes. Whether someone believes you could “push harder if you just tried” or assumes you already are pushing yourself to your limit and need to slow down— the impact is the same. You’re no longer trusted to know yourself. That moment is usually framed as concern. It rarely feels like care. That’s where neuroaffirming w

Jena Plummer
Feb 93 min read


ADHD and Autism in Adults: When They Show Up Together (and Why It’s Often Missed)
Many adults discover later in life that ADHD and autism can overlap. Learn why this is often missed and how it can look like success on the outside.

Jena Plummer
Feb 74 min read


Can You Have ADHD and Anxiety at the Same Time?
ADHD and anxiety are distinct experiences, but they frequently overlap. Research suggests that around 30–50% of people with ADHD also experience an anxiety disorder

Jena Plummer
Feb 14 min read


Autism and ADHD: Understanding the Overlap Through a Neurodivergent-Affirming Lens
If you’ve ever wondered whether autism and ADHD can coexist—or why so many adults feel seen by both —you’re not alone. At Little Seed Counseling , we often work with people who have spent years feeling misunderstood, misdiagnosed, or overlooked because their experiences didn’t fit neatly into one box. Let’s talk about autism and ADHD in a way that is clear, affirming, and grounded in real lived experience , not stereotypes. Autism and ADHD: What’s the Difference? Autism and

Jena Plummer
Jan 63 min read


Agency Over Urgency: Finding Balance with Intention
ADHD and the Balance Between Agency and Urgency: How Intentionality Helps You Regain Control of Your Energy

Jena Plummer
Oct 9, 20252 min read


Life Lessons From Fantasy Football - A Therapist Runs a Fantasy Team
A therapist runs a fantasy football team.

Jena Plummer
Aug 31, 20254 min read


What Makes a Relationship Feel “Safe” After Complex Trauma?
If you’ve lived through complex trauma, even the healthiest relationship can feel unfamiliar—or unsettling. Safety after trauma isn’t...

Jena Plummer
Jul 26, 20252 min read


Finding Brainspotting Therapy Near You
In today's fast-paced world, mental health is becoming increasingly important. Many individuals are seeking effective therapy options to...

Jena Plummer
Jul 25, 20254 min read


Fear of Abandonment: Why Does Complex Trauma Make Me Clingy?
If you fear abandonment, it’s not because you're broken. It’s because you were left to hold too much on your own.

Jena Plummer
Jul 19, 20252 min read


How Do I Know If I’m Trauma Bonding With My Partner?
If you feel emotionally consumed by your partner, can’t seem to leave even when it hurts, or find yourself stuck in obsessive thinking, you may be experiencing a trauma bond, limerence, or both.

Jena Plummer
Jul 12, 20253 min read


What Are Common Trauma Triggers in Relationships—and How to Manage Them
Trauma triggers are emotional reactions that arise when something in the present reminds your nervous system of a past painful or unsafe experience.

Jena Plummer
Jul 5, 20253 min read


ChatGPT as a Mental Health Tool: Prompts for Self-Exploration, Emotional Processing & Coping
"...at Little Seed Counseling, we view AI as a a way to bridge the gap when support is needed but not accessible."

Jena Plummer
Jun 22, 20253 min read


Transforming Lives with Trauma-Informed Care
Trauma touches many lives, often leaving a lasting impact. The way we approach care for those affected by trauma is critical....

Jena Plummer
Jun 19, 20254 min read


Celebrating Pride with Little Seed Counseling
What Pride Means to Us Pride is more than a celebration—it’s a statement. It’s a protest. It’s a homecoming. At Little Seed Counseling ,...

Jena Plummer
Jun 8, 20253 min read


What Is An ADHD Assessment for Adults in North Carolina Like?
What Is an ADHD Assessment for Adults Like and why should you get one with Little Seed Counseling? Schedule an in-person or online ADHD...

Jena Plummer
May 26, 20255 min read
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